Ep 388: Is Your Kid ACTUALLY Good, or Are You Deluded?

In this episode, we discuss how to evaluate whether your player or kid is legitimately good at soccer.

We share an email received from a concerned father about his 13-year-old son, highlighting the common issue of ‘man child’ dominance in youth soccer masking true deficiencies.

We share insights into the rigorous process of player evaluations we personally did at Chivas USA, highlighting the importance of honesty and a strong rapport with both players and parents. We also touch on broader issues like the impact of nepotism in sports and the balance between encouraging talent and keeping young athletes grounded.

00:00 Intro
03:19 Parent Question: Concerns on Whether his Man-child Kid is Good
08:34 Sub: Some Technical Recommendations for Center Backs
12:27 Sub: How Easy it is to Deluding Oneself (Gio Reyna Example)
17:50 Sub: Challenges of Being a ‘Man-child’ Player
18:36 Sub: The Development Curves (Technical, Tactical, Physical, Mental)
20:45 Sub: When is Parent Development Most Effective?
23:52 Sub: Which Component Should Parents Most Work On?
28:03 What if a Parent has Been a Player or Coach?
37:56 Nepotism and Sebastian Berhalter
38:55 Club World Cup Insights
41:25 Player Evaluations We’ve Given to Players and Families
46:48 Sub: Building Rapport with Parents and Players
49:13 Sub: Coaches Leading By Example
53:10 Sub: Accelerating to Phase 4 Content
55:48 Sub: Prepping for Player Evaluations
57:12 Sub: Importance of Stories When Talking to the Best Players
01:01:52 Sub: Inspiration is a Transient Function
01:02:49 Coaches Can’t Win them All and Are Under Appreciated
01:05:10 Professionalism vs. Authenticity

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